What are the two biggest concerns with any sexy text message? It is the concern that it will come across as awkward or desperate—the last two things anyone wants to convey in a message. How can a text message be sexy and not terrible? What is the trick to making this come across as authentic and not the worst thing imaginable? The secret is to find an authentic place. What does this mean?
Match the Mood with the Text
Sometimes, the feeling is hard to pinpoint, and that’s okay. There is an overwhelming feeling of awkwardness. But, it is always possible to dig around and find an authentic response to it all. Is there innocence and naivety? How about a strong and defining sense of confidence?
Is teasing a comfortable place to be or is all this just a little too much work and a more straightforward approach is good? Some like to cut out the excess and get to the point with a romantic text, a visual text, or an anticipatory text. Tease what is expected to come.
All of this is great, but it has to come from a place of authenticity. If anyone forces the …